-“If you decide to change, how would you do it?”
-“What is an example of…?”
-“What are the pros and cons of this behavior?”
-“How has this behavior interfered with your life?”
-“What is the worst thing that could happen if you don’t change?”
-“What is the best thing that could happen if you do change?”
-“What might you say to a friend who was in your situation?”
-“If you were going to make a change, how would you do it?”
-“What do you think you will do at this point?”
-“What else?”
Consider combining an open-ended question with the use of an Affirmation, Reflection, and or Summarize.